• meet & greet

    Hump Day Meet & Greet at C&R – Jan 29th

    Hump Day Meet & Greet at C&R – Jan 29th

    Join us for a Wednesday M&G at Craft & Racked – Jan 29th. Craft & Racked is our host every other Wednesday. Come see what your Central Texas swingers have planned for the weekend. You never know who you might meet or what shenanigans you might get into. You may even have to redefine Hump Day!

    C&R has some food and drink specials just for Swinging Central Texas guests:

    • $5 House White
    • $5 House Red
    • $5 Beer Pints
    • $5 Chips and Salsa
    • $7 Spinach Dip

  • meet & greet

    Wednesday M&G at Craft & Racked – Jan 15th

    Wednesday M&G at Craft & Racked – Jan 15th

    Join us for a Wednesday M&G at Craft & Racked – Jan 15th. Craft & Racked is our host on Wednesday evenings. Come on out, and see what your Central Texas swingers are up to for the week. You never know who you might meet or what shenanigans you might get into. You may have to redefine Hump Day!

    C&R has some food and drink specials just for Swinging Central Texas guests:

    • $5 House White
    • $5 House Red
    • $5 Beer Pints
    • $5 Chips and Salsa
    • $7 Spinach Dip
  • Swinger U

    Swinger U: the icebreaker

    This is the first post in our Swinger University series.
    Have a topic you’d like us to touch on? Just let us know!
    Swinger University by Swinging Central Texas

    the icebreaker

    You see someone across the room and think, “They look like someone we should meet.” And then nerves set in and you wonder, “What do I have in my bag of tricks as an icebreaker?” So you go with the inevitable, “How did you get into the Lifestyle?” It’s the go-to conversation starter at all swinger events. In an arena where people are generally more cautious to discuss their employment or where they live, we must break the ice somehow. As a result, we are all prepared with our “story.”

    “How did you end up becoming a swinger?” On some level this leads me to other questions–ones that feel far less judgemental, but could be even more personal.

    • Where you always sex positve?
    • Did you always like to watch others have sex?
    • When did you know you were into girls?
    • Does your family know?
    • What about your children?

    All of these are the questions I want to ask but because they are personal, I always go with the old stand by.

    I have met some of my closest friends with this icebreaker. I am talking about my ride-or-die friends: the ones that you can ugly cry in front of, the ones who rescue you when you mash up your car in the rain, the ones who you call when you feel like your life is overwhelming and you need a shoulder to cry on and a friend to tell you it will all be okay in the end. Yes, it is true. Some of these friends have been play partners, and some were just friends. Some were “friend zoned” until the mood was just right and the stars aligned and you end up with a fantastic night of play you never expected. When you and your primary partner recap in the morning, laying in bed in the haze of a late night full of sex and laughs, you say things like, “Wow! I was not expecting that,” or “Why haven’t we played with so-and-so before?” These are the experiences that make us all come back week after week, party after party. 

    When you are new to the lifestyle, there are often thoughts, rumours, underground whispers, and urban legends, about swingers that are intimidating. All the women are going to be fit, and skinny, with perfect tits, amazing skin, and fantastic hair. The men will all be well endowed, perfectly tanned, and have amazing abs and killer guns. This kind of imagery in your brain already creates an intimidating presence. Well it could not be further from the truth! Guess what? The men and women in the lifestyle are the same as you and me. They are your neighbors, your coworkers, your kid’s teacher, your brother-in-law, your cousin, and so on.

    When you finally get the courage to attend a party or a club for the first time and look around–yes there are those with the “perfect” body, hair, outfit, tan arms or abs–but for the most part, you are hit with a wave of relief. When you actually stop and take a good look at the others in the room, you realize that this is a cross hatch of life. There are all different shapes, sizes, and colors in the room. Your intimidation is eased. And you remember, this is real life, not porn, so people are not crafted they are regular. The intimidating fears were all in your own mind, and the fantasy you’d like to fulfill comes from there as well. 

    Back to the person across the room that caught your eye, this is where the fantasy comes in. People in the lifestyle are, by and large, willing to talk. They are willing to open up and tell their sexual desires to people they have just met. You are in a room full of strangers who have nothing to gain or lose by engaging you. They give you random compliments, “nice shoes,” “great outfit,” or they may even say, “nice ass,” or “amazing tits”. Suddenly, you begin to feel like you are someone’s fantasy, and you feel sexy and desired in a new way, a way that is not the same as with your primary partner.

    Talk about a confidence boost! Feeling good about yourself makes you feel sex positive and allows you to unwind and partake in your own fantasies. Is that watching your partner with another person? Is that a threesome or moresome? Or, could it just be the flirtation or even a light touch with a stranger who is intriguing?

    We all come to this in different ways but when we go in with an open mind, we realize we all are looking for the same thing: a community–a community that accepts us for who we are and makes us feel good about ourselves. 

    --"trixie".

  • takeover

    SCT takes over PPR

    SCT invites you to join us for an epic takeover weekend! Purple Peacock Resort is 173 miles from Austin, in Palestine, Texas. This beautiful resort is clothing optional, and on-site play is permitted for our takeover weekend.

    Various accommodations will be available. Cabins and camping spots are available to rent, or you can bring your own RV. For the very adventurous, there are even primitive camping spots. Finally, we have an offsite/overflow hotel option.

    Thursday will include check in, a meet & greet, dinner, a bonfire, and a (belated) “St. Patrick’s Day” theme party.

    Friday afternoon includes a pool party with a DJ and i.candy leading fun games. After dinner, help us celebrate Jerry’s birthday with a “Someone Borrowed, Something Blue” theme. Dance to the ongoing DJ’s tunes. Spin the wheel to earn Daddy bucks for a chance to win naughty prizes!

    Saturday starts with a complimentary mimosa brunch that will roll into the afternoon’s naughty/naked pool party with a DJ and more i.candy fun. Saturday evening will feature the DJ plus a special headliner. Lifestyle Comic Rob Little will perform a one-hour set. Saturday evening’s theme is “When I Grow Up”, so plan those sexy professional outfits.

    Party prices include dinner Thursday and Friday as well as brunch and dinner on Saturday.

    If you are looking for some sexy fun with some of Central Texas’ most intriguing Lifestyle folks, come join us for this event. New and experienced couples and singes are all welcome; we all start somewhere.

  • meet & greet

    Meet & Greet at Craft & Racked – January 8th

    January 8, 2020 at 7pm.

    Craft & Racked is thrilled to host us on Wednesday evenings. Come on out, and see what your Central Texas swingers are up to for the week. You never know who you might meet or what shenanigans you might get into. You may have to redefine Hump Day!

    C&R has some food and drink specials just for Swinging Central Texas guests:

    • $5 House White
    • $5 House Red
    • $5 Beer Pints
    • $5 Chips and Salsa
    • $7 Spinach Dip
    Craft & Racked